Total Control Really Is Possible!
Make no mistake about it — Ejaculation By Command is the one and only premature ejaculation program for men that actually does what it claims.
It will control premature ejaculation, or more accurately let you control your own premature ejaculation, within a matter of weeks.
Better than that, from the moment you pick up the program and implement the 15 emergency techniques of ejaculation control, you’re going to find that things improve for you in bed.
We all know that being with a woman and making love can be too exciting for us to control our speedy ejaculations — it’s just something unfortunate about being a man, certainly not anything to be ashamed of!
But certainly, if there is an answer that will allow you to last longer in bed, and do it gracefully, then why would you not take it, and make it your own?
That way, you can impress your girlfriend or wife or partner with lovemaking that goes on for — well, goes on for just as long as you want it to go on for….
And that’s not an exaggeration either.
The truth of the matter is that ejaculation control isn’t just about lasting a certain length of time — it’s about having choice (to come or not to come) and control over the time when you ejaculate (when you or she is satisfied).
If you’re a man with premature ejaculation this is almost certainly an impossible concept to grasp — after all, you’ve never actually had any control over your ejaculation!
Yet the truth of the matter is that men who can control when they come find that instinctively and naturally they are making love in a way that satisfies both them and their partners.
In fact, if you’re a man with premature ejaculation, it’s extremely unlikely that you’re going to be pleasing your partner very much at all during lovemaking — even if you are kind enough to give her an orgasm (or orgasms) before the moment of penetration.
Satisfy Her Every Time With Total Ejaculation Control!
You see, the thing a woman wants is to feel a man inside her for as long as it takes to be satisfied. With premature ejaculation, that’s almost never going to happen. The man simply comes too soon, and sometimes far too soon.
For men who want to take their women to orgasm during intercourse, it’s particularly disappointing — because no matter what they do, they never seem to develop any greater control over their ejaculation.
It doesn’t have to be like this because Lloyd Lester’s revolutionary program Ejaculation By Command literally gives you every possible means and opportunity to control your ejaculation during intercourse, so that you can achieve the highest levels of sexual satisfaction pleasure.
Ejaculation By Command isn’t just a single stranded approach, either — you’ll have gathered from what I said above that there are both emergency techniques and long-term techniques in the program.
The reason you don’t want to be using the emergency techniques on a long-term basis is simply because they distract you from the connection with your partner that you need to feel to be truly intimate.
So for the long-term, you can embed a revolutionary new approach to lovemaking deeply into your system so that it becomes second nature, and you never have to think again about whether or not you’re going to come too quickly.
Why “revolutionary”? Well, simply because Ejaculation By Command does not talk about clamping down the PC or pubococcygeal muscle before you ejaculate.
If you’ve ever tried this you will surely know that this is about as successful as trying to slow down ejaculation by thinking about baseball, roadkill or the annual tax return you haven’t yet completed. It simply doesn’t work.
The truth is men with premature ejaculation have a bodily trigger of the ejaculatory reflex that’s far too sensitive and far too easily “primed”. This means they cannot control their ejaculation by distracting themselves.
So what you need is something that actually changes this level of sensitivity in your body so that you can control your ejaculation much more easily — and the way that you can do this is masterfully described by Lloyd Lester In Ejaculation by Command.
Essentially what he’s going to do is give you a system of self hypnosis, neurolinguistic programming or NLP, and other sophisticated, advanced techniques which will literally allow you to reprogram both your body and mind to a lower level of sensitivity so that you ejaculate more slowly and with much greater control.
And this doesn’t mean that you feel any less sexual pleasure — what it means is you feel the same amount of sexual pleasure – but now for much longer. Better still, at no point during the time before you ejaculate will you feel you’re about to lose control and come too quick!
So there’s something really important here, it’s about CHOICE. And CONTROL.
These things that every good lover aims for. There are within your grasp, and they’re not that difficult to achieve, either. Check out Ejaculation By Command on the link provided above.
Premature Ejaculation Controlled
The best series of premature ejaculation exercises – which means the ones that work – are described in an e-book called Ejaculation By Command written by sex therapist and counselor Lloyd Lester.
I’ve recommended his ejaculation control program for many years now, because it contains exactly the same tricks, techniques and tips for gaining greater ejaculatory control that I use with my own clients in face-to-face counseling.
In other words, Lloyd’s e-book gives you exactly the exercises and techniques that you’d get if you went to see a professional sex therapist for between $100 and $200 an hour. You get techniques that work, adapted so that you can use them at home without any trouble whatsoever, so you can easily, quickly and permanently cure premature ejaculation.
Now, I wouldn’t expect you to buy this without knowing a little bit about it, so I’m going to tell you what you get for your money.
To start with, it isn’t just a single e-book on ejaculation control. In fact you get 9 sections in the program, 3 of which are about ejaculation control; the other 6 are bonus e-books or videos on how to increase sexual pleasure, the top 10 best sex positions, how to pleasure a woman so she reaches orgasm every time you make love, and other great sex techniques.
You might be thinking that 3 sections on ejaculation control and 6 on that sex is a bit out of balance, but when you look at the number of pages, you’ll find that you’re getting a massive amount of information on ejaculatory control (actually the basic e-book on Ejaculation By Command is 135 pages long and contains everything you could ever need to know about lasting longer in bed).
OK, so 135 pages of information sounds like a lot, and I suppose in a way it is, although the pages are nicely designed and you’re not getting 135 pages of densely packed print.
What you are getting is a step-by-step guide on the best ways in which men can learn how to last longer in bed.
To make it much easier to use, you also get a step-by-step guide which summarizes the 135 pages of information about premature ejaculation control in a very simple way.
You don’t even need to read the detailed information if you don’t want to, although if there’s anything you’re not clear about the big eBook will explain it to you so that you can see exactly what you’re doing, and why.
As I said above, the techniques are based on those used by sex therapists, so Ejaculation By Command isn’t just about one approach. It’s about using several techniques together, but focusing on the ones that work for you.
Now, as you may have read, some men who have rapid ejaculation issues don’t have much awareness of how aroused they are, and they often tell me that timing of their ejaculation comes as a surprise to them – they say it’s as if it comes from nowhere.
For these men there’s a whole system of increasing their awareness so that they can sense exactly how near or far away they are from the point of orgasm.
This is important because when they can sense they’re approaching orgasm, they can do something which will allow them to slow things down, so they get time….a longer time before they approach the point of no return.
That way, they can last much longer in bed. And what are the things they can do?
How You Can Get Back In Command In Bed
Well, if you’re one of these men, you can use deep breathing exercises which are explained in the book, or perhaps slow down the rhythm of sex.
There are many more premature ejaculation exercises, too, all of which are explained in detail in the eBook.
And then there are some men who just simply enter their partner, make a few thrusts and come, but know perfectly well it’s going to happen – they just can’t stop it happening. This is quite common, and if you’re one of these men, you’ll find a different set of exercises.
You can use these exercises to control your ejaculation whether you last for 1 minute (or less) or 10 minutes, or anywhere in between, and you actually want to last longer. And what are those exercises?
Well, there are several types. There are breathing exercises: simple, straightforward exercises you can do almost without thinking about them, which have a massive impact on your level of arousal, reducing it quickly and profoundly, so that you gain much more time before you ejaculate.
Even if you’ve come across the concept of using breathing exercises to control PE before, you’ll never have seen anything like this.
These are exercises that cause your arousal to plummet, but you’ll maintain your erection so that you can go on making love absolutely confident that you aren’t going to come any time soon.
Then there are muscular relaxation techniques. Now, learning to relax the muscles of your whole body can be quite a long-term process, so I wouldn’t trust anybody who says you can control PE just by relaxing your body – it isn’t that simple! Fortunately, Lloyd isn’t asking you to do that in Ejaculation By Command.
There are certain specific techniques which you can use, techniques which will allow you to discover very quickly how to relax the muscles of your pelvis These are the ones that control ejaculation).
You see, the tighter these pelvic muscles are, the quicker you’re going to ejaculate. That’s basically because ejaculation isn’t just the product of a mental build-up to orgasm; it’s also the product of physical tension building up in the body to the point where it’s released in an explosive ejaculation.
And the key to the muscular aspect of orgasm control and ejaculation delay lies in the pelvic muscles. So if you know a few techniques to control how tense your pelvic muscles are, you’ve basically got a powerful way of controlling whether you reach orgasm and ejaculate in the next minute or the next ten minutes. The whole concept is explained in detail in the Ejaculation By Command eBook.
In addition, there are other techniques about increasing your sensual awareness, using sexual massage to arouse your partner, and advanced techniques of sexual arousal which mean you can enter her when she is she is much nearer the point of orgasm that she’d otherwise be…. and that means that you both have chance of reaching orgasm together.
And so it goes on: by taking several techniques and joining them seamlessly into a single, well proven approach, Lloyd Lester has actually managed to do what nobody else really has, I think – and that’s to produce a self-help, home treatment strategy for premature ejaculation control that actually works.